Write Your Speech — Wedding Toast

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These make the speech feel like it's about them — not just anyone.

A few more for Best Man speeches

What's the most "him" thing he's ever done — a specific moment?

What does she bring out in him that wasn't there before?

What did you think when he first told you about her?

Finish this: "He's the kind of guy who..."

A few more for Maid of Honor speeches

What's one thing about her that no one else in that room knows — a specific scene?

What's the best thing she's ever done for you?

What have you noticed about her since she's been with him?

What's one quality in him that you know is exactly right for her?

A few more for Father of the Bride speeches

One specific memory from her childhood — a scene, not a feeling. What happened, where were you, how old was she?

What was your first impression of him, and what changed it?

What's one thing you've always wanted to say to her but never have?

One real piece of marriage advice — something you actually believe, not a platitude (optional)

A few more for Mother of the Bride speeches

What's one thing about raising her that only you would know?

What did you always hope she'd find in a partner — and do you see it in him?

What's one moment you realized she'd become her own person?

Is there something you want to say directly to her — just from you to her?

A few more for the Groom's speech

When did you know? Describe the actual moment or scene — not the feeling, but what happened.

What's one thing about her that you've never said publicly?

What's one small thing she does that's completely hers — something you'll never get used to?

What kind of life are you promising her today?

A few more for Sibling speeches

What were they like as a kid — one specific scene, not a summary?

What's the most "them" thing they've ever done?

What was your first impression of their partner, and how has it changed?

What do you see in your sibling when they're with their partner that you haven't seen before?

What do you want their partner to know about who they're actually marrying?

Something you've never said to them that today feels like the right day to say (optional)

A few more for the Bride's speech

When did you know? Not the feeling — the actual scene.

What do you love about him that you've never said out loud in public?

What did the people closest to you notice about you when you first started seeing him?